23 May 2009

COMMITMENT.

commitment =  an agreement or pledge to do something in the future,

this is one definition i found online, yes, commitment is like a promise, i think im ready to pledge on commitment, well i know that im far more than ready, too young too commit? nope, never too young to commit, ive started thinking about commitment, two years ago, when i met this guy and when i thought everything was perfect, but then i was wrong when he started to treat me like ****. 

i dont think i ever been afraid to commit, i take commitment as a challenge and as one of the test on life, what is life without tests? why are people afraid to commit? i never understand this fact, and as much as i want to understand, i will never do. rushing? nope, not at all, i dont understand why most people take relationship as something that they think its part of things that they do for fun in life. that is totally wrong, especially when you get someone to really fall for you. if you dont want to commit, make it clear at the first place, dont say the word LOVE.

to be in a relationship is wonderful, really. to have someone to talk to everyday, and getting to know new facts about each other every day is great, awesome. to have someone that understands you and to have an opposite gender to talk about and share everything with. these things you can do with your bestfriends? of course you can, but in a relationship, its something, there's this more than love feeling. i dont know how to describe love, much really. but you guys know what i mean. 

my age is too youung to commit? noo, not at all, i take for example, my sister and her fiance-to-be, they've been in a relationship for 9 years, and are getting engaged next sunday, 31st May, 2009. and getting married end of this year, on the day of their anniversarry, they've been together since their teenage years, if im not mistaken my sister was 17 at that time, see. this shows that age is not a matter if you want to commit.

 i want to be in a relationship, i want to commit, i wanna make that particular person that can love me feel special, feels like its worth it to live in this world and feel loved. i know i wont hurt him, i know i will make him feel special, treat him as nice as a person can be treated and cherish his life as much as i can. life is short, people. lets say, you only have time to live until the next day, when will you have the chance to experience all these? life is all about trying things, give it a try and give your all into it. commitment is healthy, commitment is wonderful. 

live your life like its your last day.
Syazana.

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